Lesson 12: Your Healthy Personal Space, Within and Without
It’s also common to have the experience of a stronger personal space around you, a stronger energy boundary, or aura, in the presence of the people that formerly stressed you out.
It’s almost like you have a resilient, intelligent force field surrounding you that is getting stronger, every time you do the powerful self-healing of forgiving yourself or another person.
Interestingly, people that formerly invaded your space can unconsciously ‘read’ your new boundary, and they test you less and less.
It’s a positive self love maneuver to clear out the physical space around you at a time like this – remove some clutter in our immediate home environment, clean and re-organize a room that was dirty or crowded, get rid of things you’ve outgrown.
Let the inner and the outer intention for healthy personal space work together.
Even in a busy time, it is a self love discipline to make sure one important space is always well cared for, every day – the clean kitchen counter, the tidily made bed, the watered plant, etc. Caring for something in your home with steady dedication reminds you that you care about yourself.
Lastly, it’s a soul-nourishing thing to have one space in your house designated as your sacred space: an altar of sorts, a table or shelf where we mindfully place some beautiful token(s) that remind you of your Higher Self, and that evoke the feeling of both wonder and intentionality in your living.